Things are not working as planned.
Money is tight and my bank WON'T cash a check that will give me what I need to go to VA. I was really depressed yesterday, there was no hope of seeing Steve, because...we can't stay in my sister's house (Too many animals, he's allergic) We most def. can't stay in my Christian brother's house (They frown on wild loud sex..and I have no money for a motel room.
Well, I talked to him online to see if there was a way we could do this on the 15th instead of the 9th, because that's when the check will be valid. He said no, but he was shocked that i didn't ask him to help.

Steve: why dont u just let me handle this
Steve: i have the money to pay for that stuff
Steve: and im not about to let money get in the way of not seeing you
zero_doll999: I feel reallllly bad, though.
zero_doll999: I don't want to ask for a hand out
Steve: youre not
Steve: dammit
Steve: im going to come see u so youre going to just deal with it
zero_doll999: *sigh* I'm weak......fine..you win
zero_doll999: I'll let you get the hotel room
Steve: i love you kasey and i want to be with u

I have other details to work out, but that made me very happy to hear.
it's nice for someone to think about me and to actually try and help me out. I'm not used to this yet.